Over the time I have been on my personal journey in submissiveness, I have come to learn several things about myself as well as the BDSM community. One factor of myself is that I am very much service oriented, yet I find many in our community do not understand how a submissive can be service oriented and from where they gain their pleasure. Many have joked, ”if there are any service submissives about, I could use a housekeeper.” And I hope in what I write here these views can be turn to a better comprehension.